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Posted by danman4627 [Really Going Now], aged 19

Relationship Stats:
Has been together with partner for 2 Years, 3 Months
Is 60% happy with their partner
Is 80% attracted to their partner
Is 40% sure the outlook is bright

Alright so me and my girlfriend have been going out for two years. Shes nice, sweet, caring, and has a nice ass. When we hang out together its awesome, but when were around other people she changes.

It seems like shes has to show everyone that Im a bitch for some reason. Shes insults me, embarasses me, and acts like a general psycho. She even does this around my family. This makes my friends and family not like her, as well as piss me off.

My family's opinions are VERY important to me but I do love her. It has gotten to the point where my parents would probably disapprove of me marrying her. I mean, they only want the best for me you know. And my friends are also very important to me and i cant hang out with my friends and her at the same time. They dont like her and she doesnt understand why.

What should I do?


This story has 3 comments. 2 say date. 17 say done.

Your parents and freinds probably know you pretty well, i would say that if they feel that poorly towards her she is probably not the one.


tina is full of hope..


Posted by Tina09 [Really Going Now] on April 29, 2009, 6:15 pm

Yeah I agree with Tina, some times you have to realize that if everyone has a problem with your girl, its your girls fault.


hustle by any means


Posted by jackofalltrades [Some Experience] on May 1, 2009, 12:43 am

I had an argument with a now ex-girlfriend once that revolved around the issue described above.  i couldn't figure out why she felt the need to humiliate me around her friends.  After the blowout, she admitted she had done wrong and didn't realize it.  We went out later that night and she did exacly the same thing the first opportunity she got.  What's really sad about this story is months later I was debating marrage and she was cheating on me.   

Moral of the story: you're girlfriend who I do not doubt you love very much, doesn't take your well being into concderation.  When you're the only one around, your realtionship will glow.  Add others and she will find a new way to satify herself.  You can try talking to her about it and I hope you get better results than I did. 


"We cannot avoid using power, cannot escape the compulsion to afflict the world so let us, cautious in diction and mighty in contradiction, love powerfully." 
- Martin Buber


Posted by thickmilk [Advice Expert] on February 6, 2011, 2:47 am

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