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Posted by pantherfan [New User], aged 27

Relationship Stats:
Has been together with partner for 0 Years, 1 Months
Is 70% happy with their partner
Is 90% attracted to their partner
Is 70% sure the outlook is bright

aight so i met a girl down at alley cats and we was dancin and shit and i was feelin pretty good bout her. we kiss it was hot a hell to man then she tells me she has a dude.  She leaves for a little bit and then comes back to ask if i want to take her home.......so i did and you know the rest. i gave her my number and she calls me 2 days later tellin me she broke up with her boy. WTF. shes cryin and shit so she comes over and i make it better. she fucks like a pornstar. she seems normal but after that situation i think she might be crazy.


This story has 2 comments. 4 say date. 5 say done.

im sorry man but if i think a girl could be the crazy type i cut her loose right then and there, CUT HER LOOSE!


hustle by any means


Posted by jackofalltrades [Some Experience] on May 1, 2009, 1:01 am

Sounds to me like:

 

1. You just had sex with a vulnerable girl.  Congratulations bro, you just took advantage of someone in a weakened emotional state.  You could have just talked to her or bought her dinner but you decided to capitalize on her confusion.

 

2.  Consciously or subconsciously, you realize what you just did was shit.  You feel bad.  You're not proud of what you've done even though you've already texted all your friends to tell them about the ass you just got.  

 

3.  You are now trying to justify getting rid of this girl by posting a slanted version of the story in the hopes that people like jackofalltrades (who's tag line is "hustle by any means"?) will tell you she's crazy and you need to GTFO.  Mission accomplished.  As a matter of fact, it's not your fault at all, it's hers.  Shes just crazy and you didn't do anything wrong.  

 

ADVICE:  You should apologize and tell her the exact nature of what you've done wrong.  Allow her to agree or disagree.  


"We cannot avoid using power, cannot escape the compulsion to afflict the world so let us, cautious in diction and mighty in contradiction, love powerfully." 
- Martin Buber


Posted by thickmilk [Advice Expert] on February 6, 2011, 2:20 am

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