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Posted by drk01 [Some Experience], aged 16

Relationship Stats:
Has been together with partner for 1 Years, 9 Months
Is 50% happy with their partner
Is 100% attracted to their partner
Is 60% sure the outlook is bright

ok so ive been going out with this girl from my school. shes smokin hot and i really feel like i love her. but sometimes i feel like shes cheating on me. she knows i feel this way and she says i have trust issues. i really dont have any proof but i just get the feeling. what should i do?


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She's probably cheating on you but lets give her benifit of the doubt.  

When I really like someone but get the feeling their cheating on me, I can construct the most irrational senerios in my head that always end with "her" cheating on me.  I will obsess and ponder the issue until I'm absolutly certain but have no basis for the belife besides the stories I've told myself.  

 

I've had two realtionship where I did exacly whats described above.  In the first realtionship I was being cheated on.  In the second, something way bigger was going on.  

 

No advice but I hope this helps.


"We cannot avoid using power, cannot escape the compulsion to afflict the world so let us, cautious in diction and mighty in contradiction, love powerfully." 
- Martin Buber


Posted by thickmilk [Advice Expert] on February 6, 2011, 2:27 am

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