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Posted by apples [], aged 28

Relationship Stats:
Has been together with partner for 0 Years, 0 Months
Is 70% happy with their partner
Is 70% attracted to their partner
Is 50% sure the outlook is bright

I met a guy online and he seems really nice. He cute, funny, easy to talk to. But he lives in VA i live in SC, so quite a distance. We have never met but are currently trying to arrange it. he recently lost his job and wants me to pay for his plane ticket to come see me. I could afford to fly him out but I feel like he should come to me. Is this a precursor to his future?


This story has 3 comments. 1 say date. 13 say done.

If you can afford it why dont you fly out there?


D.R.K. ness


Posted by drk01 [Some Experience] on May 6, 2009, 4:06 pm

Distance relationships are difficult.  The excitment wears away after awhile and it turns into an exausting struggle.  I always vote against distance realtionships no matter what.  


"We cannot avoid using power, cannot escape the compulsion to afflict the world so let us, cautious in diction and mighty in contradiction, love powerfully." 
- Martin Buber


Posted by thickmilk [Advice Expert] on February 6, 2011, 1:28 am

Girl, if he wants you to pay for his planeticket, you're gonna end up paying a lot more for him. You don't want a guy screwing you like that. If he really cares about you, he'll find a way. Or you could go to him. 


Posted by Isa [Some Experience] on April 29, 2010, 4:51 am

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