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Posted by gryffinswing [Some Experience], aged 23

Relationship Stats:
Has been together with partner for 6 Years, 4 Months
Is 90% happy with their partner
Is 90% attracted to their partner
Is 80% sure the outlook is bright

I have been dating the same girl since highschool. im now 23 and she still doesnt know if she wants to marry me. i want a wife and a kid. i feel like she still wants to be a kid and party it up. ive been with her for so long its hard to think of breaking up. at the same time she hasnt said no. so should i wait for her to make a decision and possibly not end up getting married or break up and start over with someone new?


This story has 1 comments. 12 say date. 5 say done.

I generally feel marrage is a bad idea.  I mean, sure it works for some people but at our age (also 23) the odds aren't in our favor.  I know what it feels like to want to get married but enjoy your autonomy while you have it.  I'm going to abstain from voting because I think you should continue to date but definatly wait on the marrage talk.  


"We cannot avoid using power, cannot escape the compulsion to afflict the world so let us, cautious in diction and mighty in contradiction, love powerfully." 
- Martin Buber


Posted by thickmilk [Advice Expert] on February 6, 2011, 1:41 am

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