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Posted by jacohen [New User], aged 20

Relationship Stats:
Rates persons attractiveness as 7/10
Is 60% happy being single
Rates their need for a relationship as 8/10
Rates their care for this person as 5/10

Okay, so I met this girl recently at party about two or three weeks after things fizzled with another girl.  Her and I seem to have some chemistry, but I can already feel the cold kiss of friend zone approaching.  However, she is incredibly flirty around me and talks about how attracted she is to me.  I'm kind of the fence here because I kind of like her, but I'm not feeling that spark just yet.


This story has 2 comments. 11 say date. 1 say do.

Act with conviction.  You don't want to be freinds with this girl.  If she pulls back you're down one potetial freindship with someone you're assured to be uncomfortably attracted to.  That's not a lose but an avoidance of an unwanted senerio.  Also, if you don't go for it now, prepare for her to meet the perfect guy really soon.  Also prepare youself for conversations with her about her new boyfriend and their sex life.  Perpare yourself when she asks you for advice from the male perspective.  Prepare youself to hear her tell you what a great friend you are and how shes so happy she met you and can talk to about these things and how your sweet and not like other guys.  Balls in your court


"We cannot avoid using power, cannot escape the compulsion to afflict the world so let us, cautious in diction and mighty in contradiction, love powerfully." 
- Martin Buber


Posted by thickmilk [Advice Expert] on February 6, 2011, 2:35 am

She's definitely into you, so if you don't want to get stuck in the friends-zone, you should make your move right now. At least date, and if the spark stays out, you'll at least know for shure. 


Posted by Isa [Some Experience] on April 29, 2010, 4:24 am

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