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Posted by Maria [], aged 17

Relationship Stats:
Has been together with partner for 0 Years, 4 Months
Is 30% happy with their partner
Is 40% attracted to their partner
Is 40% sure the outlook is bright

I've been together with my boyfriend for 4 months now. In the beginning everything went good but lately I seem to get weird vibes.

He has never been good at expressing his feelings. I always have to tell him first that I like him before he would say it (back) to me. Also in texting he doesn't show any affection and lately he almost never sends a message. I tried to talk to him about this but he didn't even trie to change it.

About a month ago we had sex. It was the first time for both of us. I'm not sorry we did but things seemed to change. I don't know what changed but he acted more distant. It is even worse than before because now I can hardly feel eny love from his side. I even thought he was going to break up with me. When I talked to him about this he told me that there was nothing wrong and that I was imaginating things. But we didn't even have sex after the first time...

Because all of this I don't really feel attracted to him any more. Sometimes I even feel tied up because i'm in this relationship that isn't really a relationship.

By now you're probably thinking I should dump him, at least that's what all my friends say.

But it's complicated. I still have feelings for him and I'm sure he has too. There is just no passion any more...

It's also hard to break up with him because we have the same friends and his sister is one of my best friends.

I really wanted to make this one last because normally i'm not the kind of girl that is in for long term relationships. But I don't know what to do any more.

What do you think?

Please help!


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